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Fix it with kindness.

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Sometimes we don't agree.

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One friend wants the doll.

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The other wants it too.

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Uh-oh.

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That's a problem.

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Faces get mad.

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And no one is having fun anymore.

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That's called a conflict.

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It means we both want something.

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But we can't have it at the same time.

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So, what can we do?

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We can stop.

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Take a deep breath.

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And try something kind.

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Like saying, can I have a turn after you?

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Or, let's find another toy.

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Or even, let's play together.

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When we talk kindly.

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When we listen.

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When we take turns.

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The problem gets smaller.

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The mad feelings go away.

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And the fun comes back.

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Because being kind is stronger than being loud.

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And sharing feels better than fighting.

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Let's stop for a moment and play a quick game.

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There's one cookie left.

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And both of you want it.

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What could you say?

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Option A.

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Let's share it.

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Option B.

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I'll leave it all before you can.

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Hmm.

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Option B might hurt someone's feelings.

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But option A.

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That's a kind choice.

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Let's share it.

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Next time you feel a fight starting.

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Can you stop.

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Talk.

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And fix it the kind way.